Archive for June, 2009

Cock and balls torture

Posted in cock and ball torture, fucking the slut with a strap on, male submission with tags , , on June 23, 2009 by Maitresse

It has come to Mistress’ attention that some dirty little slut has been searching using terms like “spanking his balls”. You get off on that, don’t you.. the thought of a Mistress taking control of your most tender parts and smacking them all over the place. You slut.

Freeq used to have free sections where you could read about all the amazing things men do to their balls. Nailing to boards, injecting with saline, tying up, weights, hornets… Some of you are quite imaginative.

In theory you’re not supposed to hit balls too hard too often. Something about triggering cancer. I doubt it’s something to lose sleep over, though, not in comparison to say, the chance of being run over by a car. Cocks on the other hand, now cocks can take a whole lot of punishment. Muahahaha.

Mistress quite enjoys twisting and pinching cocks. They’re like a sort of organic stress ball, to be tortured for Mistress’ amusement. Standing on them in stiletto heels is a real favourite. It should be taught in marriage counselling. Nothing will bring an arrogant man to heel like a 5″ stiletto heel on his scrotum. Have him at your feet, worshiping Mistress and submitting his body and mind to her as is his rightful place.

It’s quite something to imagine, isn’t it. Being naked and bound for Mistress’ pleasure, when she can do anything she wishes. How would it feel to be tied to the bed and gagged while Mistress slowly pulls on a pair of surgical gloves. You watch her smile as she’s opening some plastic, then it dawns on you that she has a dozen big needles on the table…. With exquisite patience she presses the tip against the crown of your cock. The sharp needles bites then penetrates the skin. She laughs as you scream into the gag. The needle is now stuck through the skin on the rim of your head… In a few minutes you have half a dozen needles in a “crown of thorns” in your cock.

Hehe. Now you can search crown of thorns. Trollop.

If she was feeling particularly nasty she might cane your arse while you’re lying there, naked and exposed, with needles stuck through your cock.

In addition to a short note about cock and balls torture, my own darling slut has referred me to an interesting site strapon tryouts. It’s a professional site, but there’s a tour that gives you the idea. I think my darling slut was having wet dreams over the thought of being done with a 12 inch black rubber dildo. Hehe, he’s such a slut.

I wonder how it would feel to have your arse fucked like a filthy manwhore while you have those big long 16g needles stuck through the head?

Happy Yule

Posted in getting all metaphysical with tags , on June 23, 2009 by Maitresse

Yes folks, on this side of the planet it’s just gone Midwinter and we’re feeling it. Fortunately there’s been a bit of rain in addition to the cold, stay inside and have my feet worshiped weather.

We celebrated with food and coloured candles, which was pleasant and not too much work. My darling slut has his birthday at Imbolc, so I’m trying to think up a nicely kinky celebration of both… Which will probably involve quite a bit of hot wax play LOL

In recent weeks we’ve been staying in quite a bit and spending some time cuddling and massaging. My slut has pretty good hands for this so I enjoy it quite a bit. There’s nothing like having Mistress’ feet worshiped and rubbed to put Her in a good mood. That and a slut who can cook. Yum!

Training for strap on sex

Posted in FemDom, fucking the slut with a strap on with tags , , , , , , on June 10, 2009 by Maitresse

The long weekend was perfect for spending lots of time in bed training the slut. Not long after I arrived, I took the collar out of my toy bag. My darling slut came and knelt before me and held his hair out of the way for me to put his collar on. He wore it most of the weekend.

I’d planned to buy a larger dildo for the strap on harness and some new metal rings to hold them in place better. At the sex shops we went to there were lots of different dongs, some small some huge, but not many in between for gradually building up. Quite a few of them were moulded with balls and a suction cap that might do in a pinch but not really what I was hoping for. Since my slut already has the only cock I really want to look at, my preference is for dildos and vibrators that have a smooth or spiral kind of finish. Plastic dicks are so impersonal.

After we’d spent Saturday out looking around, we decided on a 7 1/2 inch dildo and a set of rubber rings. The only metal ones came with a chest harness. I guess you could use curtain rings at a pinch, though it might be interesting if the lady in the craft shop asks what you’re making.

When we got in on Saturday evening, I tried the new dong on for size. “Come here and check this out” I called to him. He walked in to see me in the lovely satin nightie with a big dildo sticking out from under it. Without question he came over, knelt down and began sucking it. My darling, willing, dirty little slut. I tied him up in a rope harness which he wore while he was making dinner, tied over his new skirt so I could feel his arse and balls while he was working.

That night he was being quite cheeky. He’s not a naturally subservient kind of person and I often take some time spanking him or torturing his cock to bring him into subspace. Saturday night I warmed him up with a great spanking with the paddle. In the bottom of my toybag I also found a long black leather belt which has been in there for some time. I thought it would be amusing to give my slut a bit of a belting as well. He was ordered to kneel on the floor so I could swing the belt properly, and he confessed that he is a dirty little slut who deserves a good belting. He loves being owned by me and available for me to play with and fuck.

After I’d had enough fun and his arse was bright cherry red, I wanted to try out the new dildo on him. He was wearing the new black skirt he’d bought and some gorgeous lacy panties. I pulled on a rubber glove and lubed him up. Then I fucked him on the loungeroom floor. The new dildo held on as I pumped it hard up into his arse again and again. I ran my nails down his back and kissed him a few times before fucking him more. He has his face down and groaned and moaned the whole time in ecstasy. He couldn’t get enough, the dirty little slut.

Later I took him to bed and had him service me. He was so wound up from the fucking and cock torture that he begged to be allowed to serve me with his cock. Eventually I permitted it and he was very, very good. He was even given permission to cum. Naturally he obeyed.

Sunday afternoon was spent in a lovely warm haze. Because it was a long weekend, we had another night together to play. In the early evening I amused myself for an hour or so with pegs on his balls and cock, flicking them for fun to see if I could make them flick off. He wasn’t bound but I ordered him to lie back on the couch and he stayed there, naked and collared, as I played with him.

Large pegs are quite good because they give the impression that they’re going to hurt. Little girls’ hair clips are really good fun. Good for the foreskin. They look so small and sweet, but the teeth inside are quite snappy and the pain will build up rapidly over time. And they can be flicked off with a riding crop or cane.

That night I decided to take his training a little further. Not with the cane this time, although I had used the paddle and belt until my arm ached… Mostly for the strap on. The best dildos for strap ons are all huge. Long and thick. And my slut is really ready for a great big cock.

I took him to bed and got out the gloves and lube again. As he knelt on the bed moaning softly in submission, I fingered him. Slowly I stroked him with one finger, then added another and another. Before long I fucked him with my hand. He’s working up to being fisted and fucked with a big dong. After some time and quite a bit of lube, I had most of my hand fucking him and he loved it.

Later I fucked him again with the strap on. I ordered him to roll over on his back and I fucked him like that, so I could kiss him and look into his eyes as I plunge my big cock into him again and again. He was so wound up that when I gave him the order to serve me, he was ready to cum again almost immediately. Of course he had to wait a while, but since he had performed so beautifully for me I gave him permission again.

It was wonderful to have the extra day off. We spent a long night together in each other’s arms and stayed in bed late in the morning to enjoy the feeling. It was cold outside and raining, so we stayed warm. My slut enjoyed wearing his new skirt around the house with the panties on underneath. They’re a lovely light green with a greyish trim and they look gorgeous on him. In the skirt he is exposed for me and I can walk up to him any time and put my hand up the skirt to pinch or feel him. Or pull up the skirt and spank his arse.

What a great way to spend a weekend. Especially a long weekend. Now I need the week for my arm to recover LOL.

I thoroughly enjoyed having that time together alone with my darling slut. He is so sweet and obedient to me. It’s wonderful to have him as my very own loving, collared sub.

The slut returneth

Posted in FemDom, getting all metaphysical, male submission, my darling slut, the scene with tags , , , , , , on June 7, 2009 by Maitresse

Yes, my darling slut has his blog up and running again. He was actually quite upset when he found it was suspended. I had to give him a good spanking and a cuddle before we went out.

Turns out one of the links weren’t ‘our sort of people’. Well, that’s sorted now and we can continue tapping away happily. In the meantime I was having a look around for possible alternatives for him. There are a couple of sites that use WordPress to run their blogs, but none are as quick or comprehensive as the Press itself. Then there’s blogger which allows adult content but the interface isn’t quite as smooth as this. *shrug* Horses for courses.

It’s a little odd to experience a kind of separation anxiety when one’s partner is no longer on the same host. Unexpected. Particularly since the whole thing started off as a bit of an experiment. I started this one and invited him to be a co-author…. During the login he began his own and away we went. There’s even a bit of a competition going as to stats LOL. I did tell him I was going to take lots of photos of his spanked arse so I could generate more traffic. Since he’s my slut it is appropriate for me to use his body like that if I please. That was when his library of vintage BDSM comics came out… The big guns.

No doubt we’ll see how all that progresses. In the meantime it’s nice that we’re back together as a blogging BDSM couple. By this stage I guess you’re either warm and fuzzy or about to be ill. Hehe.

Aside from blogly matters this weekend sees me replete with lovely new lingerie and a very sexy satin nightie. No, not black. Subtle coffee coloured satin with a black lace trim. I also picked out some new underwear for my slut, which fits him *very* well. You may get to see some photos of that in the near future.

I’ll add one final thought, in a story. Lately a few of our fellow BDSMers have been pondering communication between dom and sub. How do you bring up an uncomfortable topic? When do you share something with a partner relating to your submission or domination. This is something that can be tricky, like all communication between humans. Particularly when you’re maybe in a dom or sub frame of mind. There are times when my darling slut is feeling very submissive and as soon as I’m in the door he’s on his knees worshiping me. Other times I’m feelilng like a Domme. If you’re spending a lot of time with a person odds are you’re not going to be in that role all the time.

Yesterday we went to a couple of sex shops looking for some rings for the strap on and a new dong. At one point we’d picked out a lovely sparkly purple silicon dong. Somewhat longer and thicker than what we’d been using previously. At the checkout the thirty something long haired gentleman was informing us that silicone lube could not be used with this particular model, nor oil. Not oil? Water based only, he asserted. This was not good news. The only lube we use is copha which is vegetable oil.

At this point there was an opportunity to have a bit of a play. I approached and enquired about the use of vegetable oil based lubes for them. Both the guys blushed. I must admit it was a bit of a rush, since they were now thinking about the use of a strap on dildo all lubed up and ready to go…

By the time we arrived home I was in a Domme headspace. My slut wasn’t feeling terribly submissive so it was necessary to do a bit of work on him before I fucked him. He’ll probably tell you all about the things I was saying to him as I whipped him. The dirty little slut begged me to fuck him like he deserved. Every time he opened his mouth without saying “yes Mistress” or “please Mistress” he was whipped again.

When I did fuck him with the new dong it was wonderful. I made him my bitch. He really loves a good hard fucking and I must say I’m a bit bruised from pumping him so hard.

When we were lying in bed cuddling, I asked him how it all went from his perspective. “We need a bigger dildo.” There are definitely times when I don’t ask for feedback because anything he says is going to seem like disrespect. Other times though it’s like management, good care and feeding of your new slut. He is an affectionate and loving human being. His submission is a gift to me that I treasure. As his training continues and he gets harder whippings or bigger strap ons I want to know how it’s feeling for him.

I guess I agree with what thumper and Lexi are thinking. You know it’s necessary to communicate in a D/s relationship particularly when you’re playing with corporal punishment. But it can be really tricky.

From time to time you hear about “do me subs” or “topping from the bottom” when a sub or bottom is percieved to be demanding or trying to run the show. It can be hard to say just where that line is and it probably varies from person to person. Before I found my darling slut I did encounter a number of male subs who didn’t particularly care about me as a person at all, who simply wanted someone to step in and act out a role in their fantasy. Needless to say I’m not sitting around in my lovely satin lingerie now with any of them.

Between two people in a relationship though, especially in a situation where there is an imbalance of power, there needs to be scope for the person in the submissive position to be able to maintain their personal boundaries or at least their control over how they wish to give them up. If something makes you genuinely uncomfortable, you should be able to say it. It might need waiting for the right moment… You don’t want to bring up a distaste for anal sex, for instance, in the middle of a heavy flogging.

Whenever my slut comes to me with something to say about how we’re playing or what we’re planning, I love to hear it. Recently I’d suggested he wear his collar to a particular place in public. About half an hour later he came and knelt before me and asked if I would reconsider. He wasn’t comfortable with it. He’s my sub and not a slave. Even if he was, I’d still consider what’s in his interest as a person and as my own lover.

Whether he’s using safe words during a scene or discussing his experiences with me outside of roleplay, I respect his boundaries. It would certainly be very uncomfortable if he didn’t offer any feedback about how his training is progressing and how he’s feeling about the relationship. There’s a difference between being the Domme, having the whip hand, and flying blind pushing another person around.

That’s my .02 anyways. YMMV

Update

Posted in my darling slut, sources, the scene with tags on June 7, 2009 by Maitresse

Unfortunately my darling slut has had his blog suspended, temporarily we hope. Everything is backed up so if he doesn’t reappear on wordpress very soon I’ll give you his new url.

It’s a bit of a shame really. I do like the wordpress interface. Perhaps there ought to be a 18+ category? There do seem to be a lot of wordpress blogs with adult content and they are very popular. Anyways, if we can’t continue here I’ll let you know when and where we transfer.

xxx Maitresse

The kiss

Posted in FemDom, male submission with tags , on June 6, 2009 by Maitresse

Mmmm. A long weekend. How better to spend a long weekend than with one’s darling slut yearning to pamper and serve. Perfect.

When I arrived at his house, he came out to greet me with a kiss. It was a great kiss. It was a passionate kiss. The kind of kiss you want to write a blog post about. Have you ever watched that film the Princess Bride? At the end the commentator says something like:

Since the invention of the kiss, there have only been five kisses that were rated the most passionate, the most pure. This one left them all behind.

That’s been running through my mind as I remember being greeted with that kiss. All the willing devotion and heartfelt submission of my darling slut was summed up in that offering of love, and I felt it right to my core.

The house was nice and warm for me to come inside from the cold. He carried my bag and the toy bag and waited while I settled in. Dinner was already on the go and there was chocolate on hand. What a thoughtful slut. Male submission is exquisite. And enjoyable.

As I brought the collar out of the toybag he knelt before me and held his hair out of the way while I put it on him. He was delighted to submit to my hand. He looked so sweet kneeling there at my feet. It’s his place and he knows it. I stood for a moment watching him. My slut.

I’m still feeling quite horny and told him I intended to take him to bed and enjoy him later. The thought aroused him so that he began to get an erection while we were sitting together. I had to take the crop to him and beat his cock to settle him down.

When we did go to bed he’d been down on me, before I took him into my body and embraced his service, for some time I wanted to hold him in my arms and relive that perfect kiss.

Where’s all the male submission pr0n?

Posted in FemDom, male submission photos, sources with tags , , , , on June 6, 2009 by Maitresse

Since my darling slut and myself have been taking photos, we’ve also been looking out for other images of male submission. He has rather a large collection of vintage porn and bondage comics which feature men being spanked, tied up and otherwise tortured by dominant women but we want more. A search of newsgroups and the web returns a squillion images of naked females but bugger all in the way of decent malesub stuff.

Enter Male Submission Art. A brilliant idea by maymay, who is using delicious to source and promote good quality, artistic male submission photography.


Whew!

Damn, that gives me ideas!

You don'[t have to be young to be hot!

So as you can see, the site is a really, really good idea and deserves a LOT of support. Get snapping!